Okay, let's get this started....
Something about women's choices in how they treat themselves have been bothering me lately. I just removed myself from a relationship that was not healthy for me. I have moved on. Yes, thank the Creator! I found (well have been finding) myself attracted to a very special someone! ;o) Anywho, we had something and I wanted to make sure that it was not a repeat of my last "relationship," so I talked to him to clear the blury lines. Turns out that he's not ready for commitment. So, what did I do? Let him free and I'm doing my own thing. If it's meant, then it'll be. Anyway, I saw all this to say that I recently spoke to a friend about what she wants in a particular realtionship. It was clear that she wanted some sort of commitment, specifically that title of boyfriend and girlfriend. Lately, her special friend has been giving her an EXCUSE of not being ready--so he can make mistakes and not be held responsible--I believe. When she went to talk to him last night about what she wanted and what he wanted, she forfeited her desires, altering them for his. She hasn't realized this. I think it's too hard for her to face reality, so she claims to want what he wants, and what's worse, something even less. Believe me, I've went through this. Mama told me never to be afraid or ashamed of what I want/wanted. So, women please stick to those desires (as long as they're HEALTHY) and honor yourselves. If he ain't giving you what you want, better yet, what you really need, he ain't worth it. My friend, this is to you. I just don't think you understand yet. Ladies, don't give them all of you if he ain't doin' the same. It's not worth the heart ache. Give yourself to you first and be honest to the WORLD about what your heart desires. Don't settle. And don 't settle for less than what you deserve just for security and justt for the feeling that someone wants you in some way. Love is much deeper! ;o)
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